Nougat 13

Few people enjoy biased opinions against them; yet we are sometimes guilty of doing that. In today’s Holy Nougat we are challenged to do differently.

“But the wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and the fruit of good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere.” ‭‭James‬ ‭3:17‬ ‭NLT‬‬

To show no favoritism means that we do not take sides (for example, in an argument). It is a very straightforward expectation; but not as easily realized in some contexts. Perhaps the word of caution would be ‘Know our triggers’. For applying knowledge is not always easy if what we’re dealing with already stirs memories – whether good or bad. When Solomon made the judgement; he was not directly related to either woman. Of course, some situations are triggers; and it may be wiser to recuse ourselves when that happens.

A motorist was once involved in a bike collision. All the eyewitnesses concurred that, having illegally and speedily overtaken a line of 6 cars at a busy intersection. The car at the front had just indicated to the motorist who was turning on the blind side. Of course; the bike fell on impact and the major damage was done to the car. On arrival, the policeman’s counsel was succinct: if the accident involved a biker, cyclist or child; then the motorist is at fault. He had no questions; just accusations.

Was that wise counsel?

A couple separated after years of marriage. Things had deteriorated to the point of paid counseling intervention. Several sessions later; one spouse discovered that the counselor was related to the other by way of the other’s close friends, and was previously aware of the other’s thoughts on the split. The spouse immediately refused to be seen and walked away.

Was the spouse justified?

Should the counselor have referred them elsewhere?

There are many other case studies that could be cited. It’s worth reminding us that Godly Wisdom ought to point others to God’s grace; partiality doesn’t usually achieve that effect. If we sense that our opinions or judgements will be colored in some way; PRAY. Or walk away.

May our actions be impacted whatever we do and say, no matter where we are.

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May all we seek be found in Christ